zzjolt
61Sacramento, United States
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My self-summary
I am lively of mind and body, and cheerful by nature, unorthodox, semi-smart, and creative.
She is 52, beautiful, brilliant, compassionate, creative, and very sensuous. Due to her professional situation, no pictures are posted. If interest develops, we can exchange pics:)
What I’m doing with my life
I am retired, working hard at things I love to do! Seeing family and friends, getting out to live music, going for long walks, finding cheerful/funny/inspirational movies, and smearing pastels on canvas...these are a few of my favorite things.
She is not retired, and works a pressure-packed 50 hour week as an international investigator. In her past she has been an actress and a painter, but time does not allow those pursuits. Trees are her salvation; nature walks are her revival.
I’m really good at
Remembering each moment counts, and appreciating my blessings. This world, with all its convoluted injustices, is full of colors, sounds, sights and smells, and endless motion! A perceiver's full platter...let's eat:)
The first things people usually notice about me
Whew...beauty (and so much more), is in the eye of the beholder. Maybe they see kindness in the eyes, and a healthy supply of energy???
With her, people see a radiant smile, very long and flowing hair and a curvy, sexy body:)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have read a lot...but I would rather get to some live music, especially the blues and world music. Last year I saw several blues shows, went to a four day Worldfest, and saw more music in parks, small venues...
She reads endlessly, and has a wide range of artistic loves:theater, dance, poetry readings, and movies among them.
Six things I could never do without
In no particular order: music, art, exercise(walking, tai chi), my kids, following a curious trail, and amorous exploration.
She must have intellectual and creative stimulation. She loves trees, the ocean, intimate conversation, art, sex and friendship. She has many, many longtime friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The mysteries of life, and potential...people at their best... music! I think a lot about the people I see day to day.
I am full of wonder for women...their complexities, and ensuing variables...physics in Motion
On a typical Friday night I am
With my lady enjoying our mutually enhancing Oasis:)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i take sorry pics.

Perhaps this article from Chelsea Chapman expresses our attitude:

Q: How would you characterize American women when it comes to approaching love? And what makes French women different?

A: American women (and Americans in general) tend to be very goal-oriented when it comes to love, sex, and dating. Rather than setting things in motion and embracing the unknown, Americans generally prefer to set things in stone with a list of clear objectives, goals and outcomes: Is he/she my soul mate or my future spouse? Where, exactly, is this relationship going? Does he/she love me, or not? From the time we’re little girls, we grow up thinking about love in terms of total love or absolute rejection — unlike the French.

Even as children we say, “He loves me/He loves me not” when picking off flower petals and pondering love. A French girl, however, grows up with this refrain instead: “He loves me a little, a lot, madly, passionately, or not at all.” From the get-go, she thinks of love not in terms of black and white (either/or) but in shades of gray; love comes in a whole spectrum of possibilities. That’s a very different way of looking at love.
You should message me if
You wish for some interesting exploration. We seek a unique person: someone who has a desire to have a couple as friends and lovers. It may never happen! We are patient, and desire to establish a friendship first, and hope that the connection will lead to a delightful erotic expression.
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