The personality type I most identify with is INTP ("The Thinker" or "The Architect"), but every time I take a personality test I get a different answer (as you can see on my tests page here). I am always a strong T (more analytical than emotional), but apparently I'm near the middle on the other three axes. Or maybe they're just not very good tests!
I enjoy looking at match percentages and seeing how people answer the questions, but I try not to take them too seriously. I'm open-minded, and while it is important to have things in common, I don't think a relationship needs to be about maximizing similarity. Mainly I'm looking for mutual attraction and compatible personalities. The rest will follow, right?
Also, several people have told me I seem a lot younger than my age. I certainly feel a lot younger!
Foodwise, I am omnivorous. I like trying out new restaurants, but honestly I find it hard to beat a carnitas black-bean super-burrito from Anna's.
1. I don't require monogamy. I don't want to prevent a partner from doing the things that make her happy and fulfilled, even if that includes seeing other people.
2. I can see myself being happily monogamous with the right person, but for now I find it less stressful and more enriching to have multiple relationships, and to have the freedom to say yes to new relationships.
3. The mode that makes the most sense to me right now is being "solo poly". My "primary", as in the person I want to spend most of my time with, is myself: I have too many perennially back-burnered projects that I would like to be spending more time working on, and as I head into middle age I am realizing that I won't be able to put them off forever. Meanwhile, it would be nice to have a few people to occasionally hang out with and be intimate with, and it seems more likely for that to work out if the people I date are themselves in other relationships (or perhaps "solo poly" themselves).
That last part means it's an interesting question whether my Status is "Single" or "In an open relationship". At any given moment I may be in one or more open relationships, but since none of them are "primary", it still sort of feels like I'm single? But if you're specifically looking for someone who is both non-monogamous and in zero relationships, I am likely not your guy...