Eliza Skinner: "dating over 30 is like trying to lure a feral cat out from under a car, while you yourself are a feral cat under a car."
(i can, in fact, see "likes")
keywords: nerdy; queer; soft butch/hard femme; enby/non-binary/agender; solo poly;
taking care of a dear friend with chronic fatigue/pain issues.
what I want to do with my life: write more, spend more time with friends, find community.
goodreads // last.fm
some things I'm gonna judge you for: Ayn Rand; the Big Bang Theory; "everything except rap and country"; non-medical aversion to vegetables; I'm-not-feminist-because-I-believe-in-equality; #gamergate; how you treat animals, children, and service employees
optimally, my weekend looks like this: Sunday is spent in bed; Monday I cook something, make phone calls, and putter around the house; Tuesday I run errands, cook another thing, and putter around the house more.
my weekend often looks like this: Sunday is spent in bed; Monday is also spent in bed; Tuesday is spent in bed til about 5pm and then I go out and run errands; Wednesday is a frantic scramble to cook something and get some sleep before I go to work that evening.
(ethical) non-monogamy/polyamory generally just means i crush a lot and prefer to remain open to possibilities. i believe in accepting love where and when and in whatever form it occurs. not that interested in kitchen table poly. maybe gaming table poly.
i don't know where else to put this, but: i don't know if i have the energy to date much further south than Laurel or Columbia MD. I commute to DC four days a week for ten-hour shifts, and it takes a lot out of me, and i'm not sure i can drive that far or further on an off day unless you're down with nap dates or Sunday morning brunch/dim sum dates. (totally message me if you're down with nap dates, regardless of distance/location)
I have never eaten a chocodile, and now it seems unlikely that I ever will.
you like small plates, fancy drinks, cheap books, thrift stores, cult video, and 7/10-rated video games;
you’re down with George Clinton, the Grateful Dead, Grimes, and Godspeed You! Black Emperor and everything in-between;
your relationship timeline & hierarchy resemble fractals or old-school dungeon maps;
you don’t dig on this but you have a friend you want to set me up with;
you believe that existence is naturally unfair and thus have little to no interest in preserving nature or acting naturally in that respect;
you have chocodiles and are willing to share;
you're down with nap dates (see above);
you want a mix tape.
keywords: nerdy; queer; femme; androgynous; enby/non-binary/agender; solo poly; chocodiles