The Otter is your primary type.
- Playful Dreamer
- Artistic, fanciful, creative
- Not driven by material gain
Sexually an Otter:
- Seeks pleasure and thrills
- Lives for the moment
- Connects to passion
- Is spontaneousIs a sexy-talk expert
- Has a low tolerance for indecisiveness and restrictions
Your secondary type is the Bear.
- Avoids conflict
- Expresses anger indirectly
Sexually a Bear:
- Has difficulty asserting and initiating
- Works hard to please partner
- Is not orgasm focused
- Prefers to ignore a problem rather than confront it
- Likes to hear sexy talk, but isn't as comfortable talking
As an Otter/Bear, you are likely to be attracted to Bee or Bee/Lion types. This is because you're attracted to those who possess the traits you lack. "Opposites attract" is a bad cliche, but there was a grain of truth behind it.
The trick to keeping that initial spark surviving as a longer-term relationship is the flexibility of your style, and the style of your partner. Each partner can use the relationship as an opportunity to learn from the other's style to balance their own. If they can't develop that flexibility and move to meet each other in the middle, "I admire how you always know how to enjoy life" becomes "Can't you ever take life seriously?!"; "I love how practical and well organized you are" becomes "Just lighten up, you're too uptight!"
For more on this, please pick up the book "Extraordinary Sex Now" by Sandra R. Scantling. I stole the whole questionnaire straight out of it.
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