The Inattentive Lover
You scored 0% Attention-desiring, 0% Other-directedness, 0% Attachment-desiring, 0% Emotionality, 0% Romance-seeking, 0% Range, and 0% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
Here is a glossary to help you understand the cryptic, septapartite notation of your SOI type:
-Attent=low desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction
+Attent=high desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction (specific attentional needs vary from type to type)
Self=more interested in oneself than in others when interacting
Other=more interested in others than in oneself when interacting
-Attach=does not seek out long-term attachments
+Attach=seeks out long-term attachments
-Emo=prefers unemotional relationships
+Emo=prefers emotionally intense relationships
-<3=low desire for sex and/or romance
+<3=high desire for sex and/or romance
Narrow=interacts with few people
Broad=interacts with many people
Insecure=expects negative evaluation from others
Secure=does not expect negative evaluation from others
Merging=High attachment-seeking, high emotionality (merging types are prone to obsession; devotion; identity crises; offspring)
Companionate=High attachment-seeking, low emotionality (companionate types are likely to be loyal, cool-headed, and dependable, with a long-term temporal orientation)
Acute=Low attachment-seeking, high emotionality (acute types tend toward extremes, and temporal orientation is mostly immediate)
Distant=Low attachment-seeking, low emotionality (distant types are the most autonomous and the most avoidant)
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